5
FAH-1 H-820
PREPARING
INVITATIONS
(CT:CH-26; 06-21-2012)
(Office of Origin: S/CPR)
(Updated only to revise Office of Origin and some formatting)
5 FAH-1 H-821 FORMAL
INVITATIONS
(TL:CH-4;
07-31-2002)
Any person responsible for preparing invitations on behalf
of the Department must follow the guidelines in the following sections.
5 FAH-1 H-821.1 Engraved Cards
(CT:CH-26;
06-21-2012)
a. Use the
fully engraved card and semi-engraved card (5  x 4 ) for state occasions,
formal luncheons, and dinners from the Secretary and other Department
officials.
b. Use engraved
cards at post for formal functions held by the chief of mission or the
principal officer at a consulate. The ambassador may authorize use by the
deputy chief of mission and a chief representative of other agencies, such as
USAID (see 5
FAH-1 Exhibit H-821.1).
5 FAH-1 H-821.2 Handwritten Invitations
(TL:CH-4;
07-31-2002)
A formal invitation may be handwritten; however, the wording
and spacing should follow the engraved model. All words and numbers, except in
the address, must be spelled out (see 5 FAH-1
Exhibit H-821.2).
5 FAH-1 H-822 INFORMAL
INVITATIONS
(TL:CH-4;
07-31-2002)
a. The
invitation for an informal occasion may be extended on a formal card (printed
or handwritten), through a personal note, telephone, a calling card, or on a
folded informal card. When using a folded informal card, the invitation is
written inside the card (see 5 FAH-1 H-822
Exhibit H-822).
b. An informal
invitation may contain abbreviations and figures. Use the initials
"RSVP" when requesting an acknowledgement.
5 FAH-1 H-823 USING TITLES
ON INVITATIONS
(TL:CH-4;
07-31-2002)
Use titles only on invitations extended by an ambassador,
minister, charg d' affaires, consul general, or consul in charge of a post.
Other officers must use their full names.
5 FAH-1 H-824 R.S.V.P.
AND REGRETS ONLY
(TL:CH-4;
07-31-2002)
a. On an
engraved card, a single strike-through in ink over the engraved "RSVP is
acceptable. When requesting only negative responses, pen in "regrets
only" directly below "R.S.V.P.
b. For informal
invitations, add "R.S.V.P." or "Regrets Only" in the lower
left corner when the invitation is for a meal, or when an acknowledgement is
desired.
c. For formal
or informal invitations, a to remind (pour memoire) card can be sent, usually
a week in advance of the event. NOTE: Send this only to important guests when
a response has not been received and the assumption is that the guest will
attend the event.
5 FAH-1 H-825 INDICATING
DRESS
(CT:CH-26;
06-21-2012)
The type of dress for both formal and informal entertaining
may be specified on invitations. Specify either white tie, black tie or
business attire in the lower left corner of the invitation, directly below
"R.S.V.P" (see 5 FAH-1
Exhibit H-821.2).
5 FAH-1 H-826 USING FULL
NAMES
(CT:CH-26;
06-21-2012)
a. Use the full
name (Mr. John Russell Doe) of the host or hostess on the invitation, but only
the surname (Mr. and Mrs. Doe) for invited guests. Show the full name of
guests on the envelope. 
b. When addressing
an envelope for an invitation to an ambassador and spouse, the first name is
omitted. For a married female ambassador, the correct address is to "The
Honorable The U.S. Ambassador and Mr. John Doe". For a married female
ambassador with a different surname, the correct address is to "The
Honorable Mary Smith The U.S. Ambassador and Mr. James Johnson. For a married
male ambassador and spouse with the same surname, the correct address is to
The Honorable The U.S. Ambassador and Mrs. John Smith.
c. When
addressing an envelope or an invitation to a married couple with different
surnames, the correct address is to "Ms. Mary A. Smith and Mr. John Q.
Doe".
d. For more
information on using titles, see 5 FAH-1 Exhibit
H-426, Forms of Address.
5 FAH-1 H-827 FUNCTION
LOCATION
(TL:CH-4;
07-31-2002)
Indicate the place where the function is to be held in the
lower right corner of the invitation. If acceptance is to be made to another
location, indicate the address or telephone number of that location after the
words "reply to, directly below the words "R.S.V.P" in the
lower left corner.
5 FAH-1 H-828 REPLIES TO
INVITATIONS
(TL:CH-4;
07-31-2002)
a. Invited
guests should reply to formal invitations within a day of receipt. Write
acceptance or regret in longhand on the front page of white, formal stationery
(5" x 7 1/4") (see 5 FAH-1 Exhibit
H-828).
b. Write reply
in the same form and language as the invitation received. Although it is not
necessary to explain regrets, it is courteous to do so.
c. An invited
guest should use the full name of the host and hostess on the envelope, but
only the last name on the written reply itself. Guests must also use their own
full names on the reply and show the date of response in the lower left corner
of the card.
d. Guests
should reply promptly to informal invitations by personal note or by telephone.
5 FAH-1 H-829 UNASSIGNED
(TL:CH-4;
07-31-2002)
 
5 FAH-1
Exhibit H-821.1 
ENGRAVED INVITATION (FORMAL)DEPARTMENT
(TL:CH-4; 07-31-2002)
 
 
  
  
    
    
    
    
  On the occasion 
  of the 
  Dedication of the 
  United States Veterans Memorial Museum 
  The Secretary of State 
  requests the pleasure of your company 
  at luncheon 
  on Wednesday, the twenty-first of April 
  at twelve-thirty oclock 
    
    
   
   | 
 
 
The Benjamin
 Franklin Room
 
  
  
  RSVP 
  The Department of State 
  (202) 647-1735 
  Twenty-second and C Streets, N.W. 
    
    
    
    
   
   | 
 
 
The Benjamin Franklin Room
 
  
  
   R.S.V.P. The Department of State 
   (202) 647-1735 Twenty-second and C Streets, N.W. 
    
    
    
   
   | 
 
 
 
 
 
  
  
    
    
    
    
    
  The
  Secretary of State 
  requests
  the pleasure of your company 
    
  at
  dinner 
    
  on
  Friday, the tenth of May 
    
  at
  seven oclock 
    
    
    
   
   | 
 
 
 
 
 
  
  
   In
  honor of His Excellency the Minister of Finance  
   and Mrs.___________. 
    
    
    
  The
  American Ambassador and Mrs. Bowers 
    
  request
  the honor of the company of 
    
  Mr.
  and Mrs. Jones 
    
  at
  dinner 
    
  on
  Wednesday, the third of August 
    
  at
  eight oclock 
    
    
    
    
   R.S.V.P. 
    
   Black tie (address optional) 
  
   
  
  
    
    
   
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5 FAH-1 Exhibit H-821.2 
HANDWRITTEN INVITATION (FORMAL)
(TL:CH-4; 07-31-2002)
 
 
 
  
  
    
    
  Mr.
  and Mrs. John Russell Doe 
  request
  the pleasure of the company of 
  Mr.
  and Mrs. Brown 
  at
  dinner 
  on
  Tuesday, the fourth of July 
  at
  eight oclock 
    
   R.S.V.P. 570
  Dupont Street 
   Black Tie City,
  State (if
  sent outside the city) 
    
    
    
   
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5 FAH-1
Exhibit H-822 
HANDWRITTEN INVITATION (INFORMAL)
(TL:CH-4; 07-31-2002)
 
  
  
    
    
  Luncheon 
  Saturday, May 10 
  one oclock 
    
   R.S.V.P. 
  304 South Street 
   Telephone
  number  City, State 
    
   
   | 
 
 
 
  
  
    
  Friday,
  September 21 
  Cocktails
  6 - 8 
    
  Mr. and Mrs. John Jones 
    
   R.S.V.P. 304 South
  Street 
    
   
   | 
 
 
 
 
5 FAH-1
Exhibit H-828 
FORMAL REPLY ON CARD (ACCEPTANCE)
(TL:CH-4; 07-31-2002)
 
 
 
  | 
     
  
    
  Mr.
  and Mrs. James Robert Jones 
  accept
  with pleasure 
  the
  kind invitation of 
  Mr.
  and Mrs. Jackson 
  to
  dinner 
  on
  Thursday, the first of May 
  at
  eight oclock 
  200
    Manor Avenue 
    
   
   | 
 
 
 
 
 
 
  
  
    
  Mr.
  and Mrs. James Robert Jones 
  regret
  that they are unable to accept  
  the
  kind invitation of 
  Mr.
  and Mrs. Jackson 
  to
  dinner 
  on
  Monday, the tenth of October 
    
   
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